Bonus mom. The meaning of this is basically that of a step mom but in gentler terms as to not be viewed as evil such as Lady Tremaine in Cinderella. A bonus mom is a mom by choice due to love. She chose to be in a relationship to care and protect a child that… Continue reading Real Struggles of A Bonus Mom
Well, It’s official. I am now a married woman. I’m so happy and so ready to move onto the next chapter in my life and no better time for it to start then with the spring time. I also graduated with my bachelors in Criminal Justice the day before my wedding so I now have… Continue reading Onto the Next Chapter
Today marks 24 days until my Fiance and I tie the knot. I honestly cannot wait to marry this man. As hard as the last 4 years have been I am the happiest I have ever been and wouldn’t change it for the world. The one thing I am very worried about is how his… Continue reading The Countdown is On
So the other night like many others, the little one had her out burst about her homework and “no one will help her” which means no one will do it for her like she would like us to. She then decided she wanted to crochet (which I taught her a few days prior thinking it… Continue reading Just when you thought you were hurt enough….
Recently, his daughter, my soon to be step daughter, 9 years old, has been coming back from her mother’s in a very aggressive mood. She acts as if she is the adult in control of everything. Specifically with me, she tells me she doesn’t need to listen to me when I ask her to do… Continue reading When Times Get Hard, Stick Together
I realize that every step parent has struggles with their step children. What I am curious about is how do they have the motivation to keep attempting to build the relationship when you get knocked down, hurt and disrespected so often? The little one and I have a very rocky relationship. The struggles she has… Continue reading Relationship Struggles
This post is written as part of a college assignment for ENG317. As I had mentioned we have some days that are a difficult. Today has been one of them. As was already planned, today was a cleaning day. The floors need vacuuming and washing, the bathroom needs scrubbing, bed sheets and blankets need washing.… Continue reading Some Days Aren’t All That Bad