Real Struggles of A Bonus Mom

Bonus mom. The meaning of this is basically that of a step mom but in gentler terms as to not be viewed as evil such as Lady Tremaine in Cinderella. A bonus mom is a mom by choice due to love. She chose to be in a relationship to care and protect a child that… Continue reading Real Struggles of A Bonus Mom

The Countdown is On

Today marks 24 days until my Fiance and I tie the knot. I honestly cannot wait to marry this man. As hard as the last 4 years have been I am the happiest I have ever been and wouldn’t change it for the world. The one thing I am very worried about is how his… Continue reading The Countdown is On

Just when you thought you were hurt enough….

So the other night like many others, the little one had her out burst about her homework and “no one will help her” which means no one will do it for her like she would like us to. She then decided she wanted to crochet (which I taught her a few days prior thinking it… Continue reading Just when you thought you were hurt enough….

Relationship Struggles

I realize that every step parent has struggles with their step children. What I am curious about is how do they have the motivation to keep attempting to build the relationship when you get knocked down, hurt and disrespected so often? The little one and I have a very rocky relationship. The struggles she has… Continue reading Relationship Struggles